That older generation stayed together. Not anymore.  Did they take their secrets to their grave?         'I shuffle along the horizontal planks of the Jetty. One, two, one, two, like a rusty train. I don’t remember the gaps between the planks being so large. I know it’s based on my perception, which has changed. I feel it this year. Nobody wants to admit that they’re old.' How do you feel about long-term relationships? About getting older? This was one of the first stories th